Guys that blatantly stare at other women when they are in the company of their partner do not realize how unkind their actions are. This is a burning issue for many couples. In many cases, women believe men are held to ransom by their hormones and simply cannot help but look at a pretty lady.
The general male consensus is if he is just "looking", no damage is caused. Although some women don't see this as distasteful, others definitely do hurt but don't do anything about it, then there are others who protest about this behavior, but nothing changes.
So what do you do when your guy has fixated eyes - on some other girl? Tell him what you've detected and how it makes you upset. Explain how insensitive and belittling this makes you feel. If he is willing to respect you and to focus his laser eyes on you only, let him know how much you appreciate his willingness to adapt - remember though, actions speak louder than words, so make sure he delivers on his promise.
If you persist with dating somebody who just won't stop staring, ogles, or leers at various women when he is in your company, ask yourself this: Why are you with someone who places more importance on his eye candy than how you feel? And if you are afraid of losing him because he will view your objections as controlling and obsessive, then clearly, you are with the wrong man. He can't have his cake and eat it too.
Are you inclined to let other people in your life walk all over you without taking your feelings into account? Bottling things up inside will only see you harbor resentment towards others and you risk becoming a bitter person in the long term. Take action to communicate openly and start to express yourself when something really matters.
And if your man is willing to openly stare at girls despite your presence, what's he like on a boys night out? Finding the right guy can take a long time, why waste precious time with someone who is probably programmed to constantly be on the hunt?
You deserve somebody who is good-hearted, thoughtful and protective. For more helpful information regarding meeting genuine singles online dating sites often provide useful resources and advice.
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